When are we good enough?
We make the call every day.
An opportunity for work presents itself, someone date-able arrives on the scene, an activity comes up that looks like fun and we make a decision on whether we are ‘good enough’ to apply for the job, ask someone out, or attend that activity.
No one asked us whether we are ‘good enough’, no one said loudly “only apply, ask, attend if you are ‘good enough’”.
Bottom line, it’s not actually our job to decide whether we’re ‘good enough’; it’s our job to apply, ask or attend.
It’s only by applying, asking or attending that we will ever have a chance of finding out whether we are ‘good enough’ or not.
Julz Darroch at bigredball